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Woman, 26, Vietnam: "My husband is cheating on me"

My husband is cheating on me. What should I do? I got married to a Japanese man, 41 years old. We met each other in Vietnam. After two years of getting to know each other, we decided to get married. He is my first love. I love him so much. And I believed he loves me also. But I realized he does not love me at all. He still love his ex-girlfriend very much.

I don't know what is the reason why they couldn't get married. But she got married to his brother. That is the reason why he and his brother don't have a good relationship. They don't talk to each other.

It seems that my husband thinks of her every minute in his life. All his heart is for her. I am nothing in his eyes. He still contacts his ex-girlfriend often, shares about everything and sometimes meets her. He takes care of her heart with all his love. He has never done the same like this for me, although I am his wife. I am so sad when I see his behavior toward his ex-girlfriend. This hurts me a lot. He married me because his mother wanted him to have a wife.

I cannot stand seeing him take care of another person like that. My heart feels pain. I cried so many nights. I have already told him about my feelings, but he ignores me. Sometime he gets angry because I talk to him about his relationship with her. Although I love him and want to bring happiness to him, he does not need my love. What should I do now? Please help me. I am going to die. I feel depressed.

I haven't migrated to Japan yet and I still don't have a job. Those feelings are killing me. Please give me advice. Thank you very much.