Woman, 28, Taiwan: A crush is affecting her health

I don't think you should hide your feeling and pretend that you are fine with "friend"

whatever happen it's happen just go for it and see what it come out.

i see your problem here.in my point of view,it is so interesting.Crushing on someone else is the true feelings from our heart,it is not guity.You should be more confident instead of being afraid of his refusing.one day,he will crush on you,and happily you anh he love actually......

my God!!!! you should try to meet more guys, the world are very big,,,

I can understand your feeling.However, you had better do something to end this crush.You should do something to show your feeling to him.In my opinion,people must say something and others will know.

I had the same situation as you, but I told her I was into her last week. Although we are not in a relationship but I still think it worth me to do. You should try to ask him if he likes you, speak it out can release yourself. I would feel upset before I told her, but now, I am happier than before and she is still my best friend. You might miss the only chance to keep a relationship as "couple" if you don't tell him.

I can understand your problem. I think you should try to forget him. For example, you ought to participate some social activities to meet new friends. Furthermore, you could find something that you are intereted in except him, it can help you to forget him.

I think that you must really to know what are your real feelings. But if you think that he don't like you, I think that you must forget him, because there isn't relationship if both don't like each other.

I can understand you are thinking about. But I think you should stop thinking about him because you can't concentrate anything. You should find fun except him! I think if you do something you are interested in or enjoy, he definitely thinks you are nice!

It is hard maybe you are having feelings for him but try to hang out with him as you can doing that maybe help you to clarify your feelings. Do not give up probably now he just want a friendship with you but if you still gong out who knows at end he could accept you as a girlfriend. In the worst case maybe you will have a benefits relationship but who cares just have fun and enjoy life

Probably you just love the feeling of being in love. If it's already affecting your physical and mental health, it;s not good to go on. Try to diverse your attention and let time pass. In the course of time, when you find someone who really cares for you sincerely, you'll naturally forget him