Woman, 21, Vietnam: Can't relax around boyfriend

try to speak with him and don't hide any feelings and be simple as much as you can

You know the feeling must have from two people.If you are beside your boyfriend and you feel not comfortable, not happy.it may be not a real love.

He may have some problems at work or with his family, or he may have something changed. Don't keep silent, girl. Anyway, if it has been lasting for a long time, you have to think about it again to decide whether to go on or give up. Good luck.

I know what you mean, and what you are wondering, 'coz I'm also a Vietnamese man. To tell the truth, it's the normal situation that every couple can meet. To me, the best solution is that, you and him had better open your mind to each other, discuss the reason why you remain that feeling when you two are together in the straightforward way so that you can know each other so well.

Hi my friend, this problem maybe is happened in every love story. But, if this problem occurs in a long time, it'll be a bad signal. The first case, you still love him. You have to attract his attention. The other case, you must have not loved him any more. In this case, you should try to find your true love. Good luck.

i think you and your lover should have more time to understand each other.i know,you also love.

If you love someone, you'd like to around him all the time and every where. if you ask me how to solve problem. i will advise you that " find your exact lover instead of that boy" . good luck

The first thing i would like to suggest you is that analyze yourself that what is the actual problem, due to which you feel uncomfortable. for example you feel that your boyfriend is more beautiful than you or you feel that if i say something to him, he maybe dislike that saying. if that is the problem then improve your confidence, and remove all your hesitations. meat him again and again. feel free to talk to him. you can also solve the problem by yourself.

Honestly, if none of you are comfortable when you are together, there is absolutely no reason why the two of you should even be togehther. Simple as that...

The best way you should do is to go the bed with him and make love as adults that will bring to you a very strange emotion.